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“paano na kaya”
28
January
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I’m not a fan of pinoy movies nor kimerald, some may say I’m “corny” but I did watch the movie… :)

Together with my good friend Keith, I decided to watch Paano na Kaya.

As most people would say, the best person to fall in love with is your best friend.

Mae Chua (Kim Chiu) and Bogs Marasigan (Gerard Anderson) have been best friends for too long. Mae fell in love with him but Bogs has a girl friend Anna (Melissa Ricks). After Bogs breaks up with long time girlfriend, Mae has done nothing but be there for Bogs, even putting Bogs’ needs before hers. Mae unintentionally professes her love for him. Bogs was shocked but later realized the things Mae did for him. They decided to find their way through their new found relationship. Everything was perfect until things get complicated when Anna comes back to try to fix things with Bogs.

Putting my self in Mae’s shoes, it was really hard to believe that Bogs really loves her after  seeing him kissing other girl especially if that girl is her ex-girl friend.

We may think that Mae was just a rebound and Bogs is still in love with his ex. The 3-month rule in One More Chance may not be applied here in the movie. It made me realized that the fact Bogs decided to make Mae her girl friend, he was indeed in love with her.

” Hindi dahil wala pang 3 months nung nagbreak sila at naging kayo rebound ka na”

Some may or may not agree to this but in my opinion guys may not be showy with what they really feels, there may be awkward feelings when their ex is around, they may act strange or get irritated when you talked or asked something about their ex, they may sometimes remember their ex or at least see some resemblance of their ex with your action but it does not mean you are being rebound.

The fact that a guy chooses you above his ex means he loves you.

Wala yan sa tagal… mas matagal man naging sila kung ikaw naman ang pinili niya, rejoice and be glad! Do not doubt, above all trust is very important.

Anyway, the movie was pretty good although if I will compare it with “one more chance” still “one more chance” is the best. The story was  cliché but I can say that they tried hard to give it a new approach that instead of focusing on the falling in love with your best friend idea, they focused it on whether Mae was just a rebound or not.

I was also impressed with the acting of Kim Chiu, she really improve a lot ♥

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Lucky I’m in love with my bestfriend!
18
December
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Finally, the long wait is over.

Last December 15, 2009, 10:00 in the morning at Shrine of Mary, Queen of Edsa, Neil and Niel exchange their vows to be husband and wife, presided by Rev. Msgr.  Arnel F. Lagarejos and their good friend Fr. Leo Luanzon. Reception followed at Valle Verde V Social Hall.

The title above best describes the relationship of the two.

They were good friends since elementary years, ate Jans transferred school when they were in highschool. Again, they met path when they entered college. Both of them studied in the University of the Philippines, Manila. From then on they became good friends. They both transferred from UP Manila to UP Diliman. They had the same course. They became best friends before they decided to be lovers.

They had their civil wedding last Easter sunday, April 12 presided by Mayor Mon Ilagan.

After a decade of being lovers finally they got married! :)

Congratulations for the both you ♥

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Time Traveler’s Wife ♥
21
August
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It’s hard being left behind. It’s hard to be the one who stays. ♥

What is the first thing that comes to my mind when I talked about this film? “TEARS”.

I’ve been waiting for this film for over a month. If you’ll just look at my facebook account you’ll see how much I endorse this film to everybody. I was watching the trailer over and over again since July. When August 19 came, I can’t help myself but went to MOA and watch the film (after doing our devcomm plan, Tin and I can’t control ourselves haha).

We watched the last full show of the film.

We are actually reading the novel and it’s good to know that what was written in the book was followed in the movie. Chapter per chapter, scenes per scenes and lines by lines.

It was a very very sad movie. I cried. a lot.

Last week I was actually thinking maybe LOVE does not exist, but after I watched the movie I realized that LOVE exists but sometimes is not really for us and that is a sad reality.

You better watch the film it’s a two thumb up heartbreaking must see movie.

the_time_travelers_wife_posterClock time is our bank manager, tax collector, police inspector;
this inner time is our wife.
—J. B. Priestley, Man and Time

The Time Traveler’s Wife, is the story, of Clare, a beautiful art student, and Henry, an adventuresome librarian, who have known each other since Clare was six and Henry was thirty-six, and were married when Clare was twenty-three and Henry thirty-one. Impossible but true, because Henry is one of the first people diagnosed with Chrono-Displacement Disorder: periodically his genetic clock resets and he finds himself misplaced in time, pulled to moments of emotional gravity from his life, past and future. His disappearances are spontaneous, his experiences unpredictable, alternately harrowing and amusing.

The Time Traveler’s Wife depicts the effects of time travel on Henry and Clare’s marriage and their passionate love for each other, as the story unfolds from both points of view. Clare and Henry attempt to live normal lives, pursuing familiar goals— steady jobs, good friends, children of their own. All of this is threatened by something they can neither prevent nor control, making their story intensely moving and entirely unforgettable.

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Love and Hate Collide
04
June
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How will you react if the very person you ever truly loved the most judge you as if he never knew you at all?

BELIEVE ME… it hurts the MOST!

love-and-hate“A tongue has no bones… but it can BREAK a heart”

1 thing I realized: LOVE is same thing as HATE…

Kaya pala nila tayo parati sinasabihan na “the more you hate the more you love” kasi you can never learn to hate a person unless you value and love that person so much.

Nararanasan natin magalit, masaktan at umiyak kapag ang taong nakasakit sa atin ay yung taong mahal natin.

Hanggang saan nga ba ang pagmamahal? Hanggang kailan nga ba dapat magmahal?

Paano kung kaisa-isang taong inaasahan mong nagtitiwala at naniniwala sayo, siya pa pala yung kauna-unahanga tao huhusgahan ka at pagdududahan ang pagmamahal at pag-uugali mo?

Ang sarap isipin at sabihing sana sa ibang tao na lang nanggaling yung mga salitang nabitawan. Sana sa ibang tao na lang na wala akong pakialaman sa iispin at sasabihin. Sana sa ibang tao na hindi mahalaga sa akin.

Sana sa iba at hindi sa kanya.

We always say that we never intend to hurt the person we love…

yesterdaysmemoriesheader It’s just too ironic…

People always do have a choice, why do we have to choose to hurt the one that we love?

Why do we always have to listen with other people?

Why don’t we just look into our ownselves and find out on our own how much a person really loved us?…

Never doubt someones love for you simply because you thought you never meet any of her standards. Never say it was just a game, who knows… you’re the only person she loved without any standards and expectations :(

Remember:

“Love is when we find someone who didn’t meet any of our standards yet we say, “i’ve found the right one.”

you know what?

By the end of the day I realized that the worst thing about hating the one you love is that:

You cannot really bear to hurt that person even you hate them, that no matter how much pain you feel inside you cannot afford to cause him pain in return simply because you LOVE him.

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when pain strikes the heart..love may fade no matter how great it was..
26
May
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Can really Love Last a Lifetime?

Being in Love is something mysterious, something irresistible, and something that will lead us to true happiness..

Love is more than just a four letter word. It is more than just a feeling; it is more than just a desire. We can never understand what love is unless we have an experience out of it.

All of us dream of falling in love, it’s just that Love has its own time in coming and going. It will come to us in God’s perfect time and if that time happens grab it, take the chance and never ever questioned why it came. There is nothing we should do and there is nothing we can do. Be happy that love chooses you.

But if the spirit of love is leaving, let it go.. it will be the hardest thing we could ever do especially if we really love the person. Do not assess blame there is nothing wrong with you or with your partner it’s just that there is reason for everything and that reason will be known in time. This is where we go wrong; sometimes we just understand love as a need. The tendency is that we demand it to stay, we insist to reclaim the love that is lost.

Love cures people- both the one who gives it and the one who receives it. What if a person loves you, but you can’t love the person in return? Do not cause pain. If you really do not love the person gently refuse it. It is better for you to go on than to let yourself fall in love to a person whom love did not chose. Always follow your own heart do not let others interfere with your feelings.

Give love to the person who brought it alive in you. If you love someone you say it, you say it out loud or the moment just passes you by. Let your Love be felt. Do not be afraid to fall in love; do not be afraid to let love grow in you.

According to Reader’s Digest, Scientist found that romantic love involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12-18 months. After that you and your partner are on your own. Love really and absolutely can last a lifetime as desired to be maintained.

Love is a matter of choice. A matter of to do or not to do, a matter of taking risk and grabbing chances. When we realize we want to spend the rest of our life with somebody, we want the rest of our life to start as soon as possible. Love really cannot exist if we, ourselves will not let it come to us. Real Love happens when we go through the hard trials of trust and sacrifice and still waking up every morning, living every hour, every minute and every second of the day without any regret on your choice.

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faLLinG in LOVE, sEttinG LimitaTiOns, BeinG CompLete ♥
23
May
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i Got this frOm my very gOod friEnd.. iT inspirEd me a Lot..

I want to sHare it with yOu :)

“There’s no way we can stop ourselves from falling in love. But we can always set limitations up to what extent we could give. Loving is not about giving our all. But it’s merely sharing some of what we have. We should not depend our whole self to someone because in the end, when everything’s over, we only have ourselves to suffer the loss with. It’s never a sin to love. The only crazy thing about it is that we seem to forget ourselves when we thought we found someone who can make us complete.”

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♥ LeTtinG gO ♥
20
May
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Now let me share to you the poetic side of me ;)

i do love making poems, this was the first poem that i wrote…

♥♥♥

Losing you had cause my fall

It was you I need after all

And now I started to miss

All those happy memories


Our relationship has ended

All our efforts were all wasted

All the dreams we’ve shared together

Now, it won’t happen never ever


But if you realize that you still love me

I would accept you happily

But my hope won’t be that high

‘Coz you’ve already said your goodbye


But now I know I made you happy

‘Coz I have set you free…

♥♥♥

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Nicholas Sparks “Message in a Bottle”
13
May
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Love isn’t enough.

One day, I planned to visit my friend, Joanne. There, I went up in her room. As I was looking around I found a book entitled “Message in a Bottle” by Nicholas Sparks. I was familiar with the author but not with the book that’s why it didn’t catch up my attention. She told me that I have to read the book because it is amazing. I got the book, made my way to her bed and started reading it… afterward I found myself falling in love with the book, falling in love with the story.

The book was written in a manner that it will be an inspiration to the readers. It showed that everybody deserves to fall in love and be loved. People tend to forget to fall in love again after a heart break. Sometimes, they become bitter about love and begin to distrust love at all.

It is true that love is not just for kids or teenagers. No matter how old a person is when love strikes at them even they no longer believe in it they will definitely fall for the person love chooses for them.

In the book, the couples are far away from each other but still find ways to communicate and to see each other, but like what they say, sometimes… LOVE is not enough, especially when the times comes that your partner felt that your love for them is fading away…

TRUST is the most essential element of a relationship. Trust that love will lasts forever. Trust that no matter what happen the person you love will be there for you till the end, that no matter how hard it is to be with you he’ll/she’ll make it through because he/she loves you. Trust that even you will meet other people and begin to fall for them, at the end they will realize that the person they left before is still the person they need after all.

There is always REGRETS in every story…

“anger is the condition where the tongue works faster than the mind, so hold it before you regret it”.

The lovers (Garrette and Theresa) decided to let go each other. They thought that it will be best for them to have a separate lives. What they didn’t know is that it will be their last chance to have each other. When Garette realized that he can’t live without Theresa, he let go of his past love and decided to go after her. Unfortunately, he died at the end of the story after letting of his past love.

After reading the book, i can’t help myself but to cry…

I got carried away… I don’t know but I was crying while reading the last chapter of the book.

I didn’t expect that i will like the story since it was about two grown up people who once had their partners in life. :(

How I wish the guy did not die and they will spend the rest of their lives at each others side. :(

unexpected turn will put you into tears…

I am looking forward to watch the movie…

i am currently reading Dear J0hn..

thanks to Jeka for lending me the book :)

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